Reality Re-Explained!

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| noun | The world or the state of things as they actually exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them.


| verb | Once more...making (an idea, situation, or problem) clear by describing it in more detail or revealing relevant facts or ideas.

Learn to Discern for Yourself!

Don't take our word for it, prove or disprove it to yourself.
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The more I think a thought, the easier that thought becomes to think.

I know this works physiologically because: 
  • Thoughts manifest within my mind via my brain, which is basically a network of neurons all interconnected like a dense jungle with multiple levels and layers. 
  • The thoughts I think more often create stronger connections between the neurons (neuron arms touching other neurons,)
  •  making the charge that stimulates them (and allows me to be aware of the thought) also stronger, 
  • so that those thoughts become easier to locate within the whole network, in the same way a well walked path is easier to sprint through than a dense, unexplored jungle.

The more I think a thought, 
the easier that thought becomes to think.

The more I feel a feeling, the easier that feeling becomes to feel.

I know this works physiologically because:
  •  my brain and body produce 'receptors' like outlets that the emotional chemicals (neurotransmitters that my brain produces) can 'plug' into in order for me to 'feel' the emotion.
  • As my brain and body replenish these receptor cells, the more frequently produced emotional chemicals likewise tell my body to produce more of those receptors they can plug into and thus, 
  • I can even feel a 'craving' or 'longing' for an emotion.
  • This is also why I can have mixed feelings, and why some feelings can 'feel' stronger than others.

The more I feel a feeling, 
the easier that feeling becomes to feel.

The more I do an action, the easier that action becomes to do.

I know this works physiologically because:

  • my brain and body work together to create what is called 'muscle memory' when I repeat a motion.
  • ('muscle memory' is basically the neuro-network in my brain [my frontal lobe's pre-motor cortex & motor cortex, and my cerebellum], AND the creating of more muscle cell nuclei [myonuclei] within each muscle cell, which is what allows me [my neuro-network] more efficient control of the cell), 
  • so that even after I stop riding a bike for years, as example, I can return to that motion without having to re-teach my brain and muscle cells to coordinate for these movements. This includes the re-building of lost muscle mass much faster than initially built!

The more I do an action,
the easier that action becomes to do.

The more I ..."  "the easier that ..."
is not an arbitrary coincidence,
it is a tool.

I recognize that despite our different cultures and nations, we've socially accepted this truth when it comes to things like:
  • learning to play an instrument
  • learning a new language
  • learning how to swim
  • etc., ... "practice makes perfect..."

I cannot un-know how life-changing it is to apply this method to my thought patterns, to actively choose and think my way to a happier, more fruitful life! It is why I enjoy sharing the knowledge and aim to make it accessible to anyone who is seeking!

Socrates, Plato, & Marcus Aurelius meet Tesla, Rife & Einstein:
Thoughts have substance in reality and a greater pull upon reality than do our emotions, or actions!

Socrates [470-399 BCE] (as known through Plato) and Plato [428-348 BCE] are best known for their thinking, and that their thinking took them to the depths of who a person really is, spirit/soul, and eternity.
Marcus Aurelius [121-180 CE] is best known for his thinking, which took him to the depths of an individuals power over and within their own experience, the balance of war and peace, and leadership.
Nikola Tesla [1856-1943] and Royal Raymond Rife [1888-1971] are best known for their thinking and creating, and that their thinking and creating took them to the depths of 'modern' sciences, energy as frequencies, and personal-to-collective physical well-being.
While Albert Einstein [1979-1955] is best known for his thinking and mathematical conceptualizations, which took him and the world to the depths of our known universe, and the duality of energy and matter.

Now consider this:      Thoughts > Emotions > Actions
Thoughts form our emotions which form our actions.
Thoughts come before emotions, which come before actions.

Thoughts have greater 'pull in reality' than emotions, which have a greater "pull in reality" than actions.

Simple, 'known' examples include, but aren't limited to:

Thinking is the same as doing.

Nothing is impossible given time.

Mind over matter.

Will* and a way. (*as in will-power)

I think, therefore I am.

"Do or do not. There is no try." - Yoda

Energy can neither be created nor destroyed.




Socrates, Plato, & Marcus collectively help define the nature of our thoughts being the edge of our souls, and not the entirety of it. Likewise, that our thoughts effect the way we perceive the world,  ourselves, and our relation to the world and universe as we know it. It was Tesla, Rife, and Einstein who gave these ideas replicable science that can be understood in our modern view of 'reality,' sans the necessity of 'spirituality' while including harmony with 'spirituality' just the same. Ah... I still get tingles and goose-flesh!

[ Even if this part didn't make sense to you, just keep reading! ]

Thoughts and feelings have more pull in reality than action because we live in a vibrational reality.

Tesla and Rife helped identify that everything (I mean EVERYTHING) made of matter has it's own unique frequency or vibration, while Einstein helped us define that matter is energy in a state [read: formation] of matter. 

      I personally believe in thinking of this truth as vibrational-frequency in the same way we now think space-time, and in fact, that you cannot even have space-time without vibrational-frequency!

Without getting too sciencey on you:

We can feel the mood of a room when we walk into it because we live in a vibrational reality. 

We share thoughts, "I was JUST thinking that exact same thing!" because we live in a vibrational reality.

"I just KNEW that was going to happen!" We have seemingly predictive sensing because we live in a vibrational reality.

"I don't know how I did it, I just did it!" We have access to seemingly unknown instincts because we live in a vibrational reality.

"I know what I know!" Says the one. 

The other retorts, "Well, I know what I know! We can't BOTH be right!" But we can both perceive opposing truths and therefore be 'right' within our OWN experiences, because we live in a vibrational reality.

We have "Serendipity!" because we live in a vibrational reality.

We can be blind to things right in front of us, "if it was a snake it would have bit me!" because we live in a vibrational reality.

By now I hope you are sensing the harder-to-define meaning of a vibrational reality... That the 'fluidity' of it starts to make a whole lot of other things make sense..

We don't just "better understand" our universe in terms of vibration and frequency, we "control" our experience of it.

Living in a vibrational reality is relevant because you don't tune your radio frequency to a country music radio station when it's rock music you want to listen to, and likewise, you can't keep complaining about anything in your life and expect it to go well!  

Really let that sink in.

Let me put it another way:

Personal perspective is like a compass on a stone, it only points in the direction that it's moved. You direct your perspective, and I direct mine. This also includes putting our personal perspectives in the hands of others to direct for us... 

(Something I make it a point not to do anymore!)

Our life experiences are that way too, only giving us the experiences of what we're tuned into via our individual thoughts and subsequent feelings. 

Now, don't get it twisted and cry "I didn't want suffering!" because I know, but we do LOVE our TRIUMPH and if I want triumph of a certain caliber, sometimes I must feel the suffering to truly feel that triumph. The underdog's triumph, as an easy example.

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I am 100% responsible for the reality that I experience as an individual and among a collective.

Things themselves (inanimate objects, living things, and even ideas and experiences) have no natural power to form my judgements. An experience or idea can't reach in my mind and give me thoughts and feelings and opinions about it. Neither can my laptop, my fine point pen, my cat, or even my twin!

Really think about that and let it sink in.

The world around us isn't what is "making" us feel the way we feel because it's not making us think the things we're thinking either. Most of our thought-habits are formed early, and influenced by our parents, siblings, teachers, classmates, and so on. 

Still, they were only influences, (and only because we let them influence!) because even they cannot reach into an individuals mind to give them thoughts, feelings, opinion or judgements about anything... it's why they reprimand, lecture, advise, and demonstrate.

However, by thinking and saying 'that' or 'they' made 'me' feel this way, we're putting responsibility for the change upon 'that' or 'they' and not upon ourselves. Then, we also have no power to enact the change ourselves, without first controlling 'that' or 'they' we gave responsibility to, and this is the #1 reason we perceive life as hard.

The only thing any one of us actually has control over, is ourselves. 

Change my mind, change my reality.

I once asked myself, on a scientific and universal level, why do we have the capacity to believe ourselves 100% right, and have someone else tell us we're 100% wrong because they likewise believe themselves 100% right? And how is it both sides can provide convincing 'proof' while the ideas themselves seem mutually exclusive? Yet, somehow... within these opposing perspectives, they exist like Schrödinger's cat, both right and wrong in the same singular moment! More interestingly, how is it, the more you look, the more you find, unless looking with the expectation there is nothing to find?

In other words: how powerful IS perspective, really?

Perspective is what makes one person feel sorry for the aboriginal woman hand-crafting her family's meager clothing, another person admire the same aboriginal woman's craftsmanship while she does it and without feeling sorry for her, and the aboriginal woman herself feel rich of possession because of the coral beads she's using this time, and rich of spirit because there are others actually interested (for whatever reason) in what she is doing, despite it being routine for her.

Perspective is what shifts fear into anger. Perspective is what turns love into hate. Perspective is what determines which of those feeling-chemicals my brain produces for me to feel. Perspective is the difference between possible and impossible. Perspective is the basis of morality. Perspective is the basis of all of my beliefs. Perspective is how I evolve. Perspective is how I define things. Perspective is how I decide what I like and don't like, what I want and don't want.

Perspective is what makes the two sides of a coin into three when you add the edge that holds the two sides apart, and four when you also add the inside where the two sides and edge meet, but five if you also include the whole of the coin. 

You can even find seven perspectives if you imagine both sides of the coins have undersides that meet up with the inside, which naturally means eight perspectives because if the sides have undersides than so does the edge! And while I could keep these mental gymnastics going, I'll just make my point:

Perspective is everything. 

Full Circle: Knowledge is only Power when it is Applied, and we're equipped!

No matter who you are, and no matter what it is you think and believe, you are living proof of these realities in action; 
the question is: are you doing it on purpose?

Happiness, Excitement, and Elation ... etc., are goals I have in common with everyone because they are the feelings of true north toward my natural self, as I experience co-created reality unfolding.

You might not believe me when I say that emotions are like a compass, not good or bad, but simply telling us how close or far from our truest selves we really are, in every moment of every day. 

It's true, and it doesn't require that you believe it, but I'll tell you, life sure does get exponentially easier when you really realize it and apply it, actively and on purpose.

We all want to be happy because happiness is the feeling of being one with the greater part of your being, known to most of us as our soul, or spirit. We crave excitement because excitement is happiness in action, in a 'potential energy' build up stage we release in epic 'kinetic energy' explosions of inspiration! 

It's not arbitrary, these sensations, but the evolutionary Heads-Up Display (HUD) to our experience of our co-created reality! 

In technology, we put the HUD before our eyes, but there is far more to our sensory input than vision, and so evolution and biology have given us emotion. 

We each have a full-body sensational HUD that helps us navigate and enjoy the co-creation of our world when we know how to use it, and otherwise has us confused and chasing when we don't understand it. 

Despair, Depression, and Anger
... etc., are "bad" feelings I can relate to with others because they are the feelings of being out of alignment with my natural self, and being out of alignment is a natural evolutionary tool.

It's most important to understand 'bad' emotions aren't 'bad.' 
We need them! 
But there are two more, very pivotal things to also understand about these 'negative' emotions:

1) Any emotion that doesn't feel 'good' is the sensation of 'separation' (never actually separate) between my conscious-being and my true-self (my soul/spirit), and that's why it feels not good. 
Basically it's my HUD notifying me "whatever I'm thinking right now, or intending, isn't in alignment with my true-self by [this] degree... and I'm just saying....
So that I can choose to keep feeling it,
or choose to re-align myself and feel better.

2) When I feel these negative emotions my body is going through a cycle of producing negative-feeling-inducing chemical cocktails that plug into those receptors I mentioned earlier, so that I can feel it, and the longer I stay feeling these negative feels, the more those receptors are replenished with openings for those negative-feel-chemical-cocktails. 
This is why we can sometimes end up feeling a weird 'comfort' in our sadness or rage or irritability or fear, etc. 
This is also why we can find the ideas of perpetual happiness impossible, because we physically lack the physiology in the moment to sense it's possible.

We NEED these 'bad' emotions because they help us identify our true-self within the apparent chaos of a co-created reality. 

Learning to use my emotional HUD!

We know what is happening physiologically when we think and feel things. We know that repetition is what creates our proverbial programing, what we call 'second nature' and 'instinct' and 'belief' and 'pre-cocieved notions' and 'habit' and 'prejudice' and 'culture' and 'mental illness' and 'perspective' and so on...

When I feel sad, I know my true-self is happy and it's my own thoughts which formed my perspective that has 'separated' me from my true-self, and thus triggered my brain to produced the sad/dispair/depressive chemical cocktail that has me feeling sad.

When I feel fear, I know my true-self is exhilarated and excited, that it's my own thoughts which formed my perspective, that separated me from my true-self, which triggered my emotion-chemicals, that has me feeling afraid.

When I am angry, I know my true-self is at peace and filled with joy, but it is my own thoughts which trigger the dominos within my body which has me feeling angry.... and so on.

By feeling the 'bad' feel I realize whatever 'this' subject is, is something I am not in alignment with my true-self about! 
It's not bad, it's just a... 'notification.'

Just admitting that to myself is always the hugest relief! 

Relief is the first key that my thoughts are on the right path to re-alignment. When I'm excited and happy again, I'll know I'm in alignment again and I feel the inspiration and potential at my proverbial and literal fingertips. 

The cycle is never-ending, because I am ever-evolving, and the second key is learning to enjoy the cycle of being out of alignment and re-aligning again.

Think the thoughts that feel better!

"Row, row, row your boat, gently down the stream.
Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily; life is but a dream.
  - (unknown) & Eliphalet Oram Lyte

We all know the song, and tune, but not many really understand what's been given to us here. It is an easy-to-remember map to getting everything you want, being everything you want, and doing everything you want in life. 

Inspired brilliance is the elated idea, shot in the dark is the hopeful idea. 


A Belief is a Thought that I just
Keep Thinking... (consistence!)